Have you ever told a whole Netflix series of lies just to
impress someone – be it in school , college , at the office, or
even in front of your relatives ?
Be honest ! Have you ever borrowed your friend’s outfits
just to look extra cool in front of your crush?
Wait…don’t tell me lying is your favorite hobby too!
If you do all this too, congratulations . You’re imperfectly
perfect , my dear .
I know, I know – this line is going to sounds really cliche,
but come on girls,
we learn from our mistakes … and honestly ,
this is the age to make mistakes, right?!
“Trying to Fit In: When Popularity Tempts You “
Everyone must have felt at some point in their school or
college that I’am not like other girls, and I need to
improve myself.
And we must have tried all kinds of ways to be
friends with the cool or smart group.
And then, after becoming friends with them ,we
try to understand their lame jokes, listen to
their boring gossip, and fit into their group…
even if it means getting slightly insulted,we don’t even
realize it !
In the process of trying to become like them , we forget
ourselves and the friends who actually match our vibe.
And then realizing, Wait…am I doing something Wrong?
does this mean I’am not a good girl?
Has this ever happened to you too?
Let me tell you my dear,there’s no such thing as a
good girl or a bad girl.If you feel like you make mistake,
then you are imperfectly perfect.
Now you either want to fix this mistake…or you’re just
done with all this drama – because honestly ,the way
you were before was the best version of you !
We’re all different, our personalities are totally unique –
so how can one solution fit us all, right?
So yeah, maybe there’s no perfect solution…
but there is a way out.
- Just do what makes you feel good.
- Just stay alone for few days.
- And then do, go, and say only what feels right to you.
Those who want to be with you will find their way to you;
those who don’t let them go .
Just remember this – you’ve made mistakes, you’ll make more,
but you’re still the best .
Frist impression is not always the last impression:
Everyone make mistakes
In a new college or office, trying to play the heroine
or prove that ‘I’m smart, brave, cool ; we end up
doing some totally ridiculous , out-of-the-world stuff…
and suddenly , in the professor’s or boss’s eyes, we’re the bad girl.
Has this ever happened to you?
And then you sit there thinking, Ugh, why did I
even do all that?!
But but but…the situation can still be handled.
Frist of all, just ignore your grumpy professor or boss –
pretend they’re a background character in your life’s movie!
Just stay the way you are…because in trying to change
yourself, you might unfortunately end up making even more mistakes.
Day by day as you keep solving your own problems,
you’ll eventually become the best version of yourself .
You’ll become a version of yourself so amazing
that even you never imagined it .
Just stay the way you are – make mistakes , learn , make some
more , accept them , and move on , it’s okay, everything will be
fine . just be your own favorite.