You know, during this wedding season, it feels so nice
to attend weddings.
Many people keep gossiping at weddings, and listening
to things like ‘ Wow, the bride and groom look so happy
together,
They look so good, The girl is getting married into such a
good family, She is so lucky, and all that…it feels really
nice to hear, right?
But this doesn’t happen in every place or every wedding…
There are many girls who don’t want to get married and
instead want to build a career and fulfill their dreams.
But because of emotional pressure from their family, they
end up getting married – and that too with a smile on their
faces.
They have so many dreams in their hearts, but the moment
they reach the wedding mandap, it feels like all those dreams
just break.
Not every wedding is a fairytale. Many marriages are built
on the grave of a girl’s career.
And she can’t do anything about it. She can’t even fight against
her own family.
There are many women who are strong and positive-minded.
They think, ‘So what if I got married? After the wedding, I will
set everything aside and still fulfill my dreams….But…but…but
After one year of marriage, she is forced to have a child.
Then she thinks, I’ll focus on my career after the baby is born,
but out of 10, only 2 girls actually manage to do that.
The rest slowly drift away from their career, busy serving their
new family and fulfilling their wishes.
All this used to happen before, and it still happens today…..
Even now, the situation hasn’t really changed.
Tell me, this is true, right?
After marriage, women are told to have a child…then to have
another one…and another.
once the children are born, the responsibility of taking care
of them also falls on the woman. Then she has to raise them,
and when they grow older, their school responsibilities, their studies
everything becomes her duty.
And this is what usually happens after marriage.
Most of the career-ambitious women, who could do anything to
achieve their dreams, end up unable to do anything for themeselves.
She gives up in front of her family and their demands. Even
today, same thing is happening in many households.
And the few girls who have the courage to stand up against
their family, to not marry and fight for their dreams – Their family
almost breaks ties with them.
The man who marries her and makes her the housewife of
his home is one man, and the one who arranges that marriage
is also a man,
meaning her father…In all this, where is the woman? She is
nowhere to be seen.
Don’t know how much courage those girls must have who fight
with their fathers to built their own careers.
And how helpless and patient those girls must be who, for the
sake of their fathers, give up their dreams, get ready to marry,
and go to become someone else’s shadow.
Have you also seen something like this happening around you.
Or have you personally gone through all this?