Every Breakup has a Story – But Not the One You Think

Breakup – it’s a subject you only understand after taking admission in the college of dates and relationships.

When a colleague or friend goes through a breakup and starts acting weird, we naturally get irritated. We think, “Look at this – she’s crying over such a stupid reason. What’s the big deal? Just say ‘it didn’t work out’ and move on”. Then we start giving free advice – “Don’t get so attached,” “You shouldn’t take it so seriously,” “The male species can’t be trusted,” and bla…bla…right?

“Have you also given the same advice to your friends?”

If We Ever Breakup :

But when the same breakup story happens to us, we act even weirder than that friend.

We fall into even deeper depression and turn into a bigger female Devdas. And then the same friend – the one we once lectured after their Heartbreak – starts giving us advice. The very things that once made the other person look stupid to us…we don’t even realize when we start doing all of them ourselves.

And then comes the stage where we stop crying and start figuring out how to forget this heartbreak hangover and its pain.

The relationship has completely ended, but our story moves forward with just one question – how do we get out of it now?

Life after Separation: Learning to move on

You don’t miss the person – you miss the habit.

And then come those kamine friends who start giving advice like they’re professors of this subject.

Talk to random people, you’ll feel better – that’s what they call a rebound, so you should try it.

Anyone who’s had a breakup has heard this advice at least once in their life.

You know, out of all the heartbreaks and separations I’ve noticed around me, the strangest thing – or ‘solution’ – I’ve seen is this.

Point to be noted, milord.

Searching things like….. How to get over a breakup, what are the rules, what are the stages, what is the 3 3 3 rule of breakup and so on…. Bro, pain after a breakup is real – but you don’t find a way out of it by searching for solutions, my friend.

Heartbreak has only one real cure: time. This is the only illness that heals with time.

At least everyone I asked told me the same solution.

Yes, if you’re looking for a temporary solution then according to the majority vote….

Temporary Ways to Move On After a Breakup

• Going on a trip with friends

• Taking a solo trip

• Trying new things and exploring

But yaar, all this sounds possible only for girls who are financially well-off and come from modern families, right? For conservative or strict families – especially middle-class once – a trip with friends is basically a dream…the kind of dream that never comes true, bro.

So, my sisters, have patience – slowly, everything does fall into place.

I think the people who say that time heals everything are actually right.

By the way, you must have heard that famous line – never cry over spilt milk. Just follow that, babes.