Breakup – it’s a subject you only understand
after taking admission in the college of dates
and relationships.
When a colleague or friend goes through a
breakup and starts acting weird, we naturally
get irritated. We think, “Look at this – she’s
crying over such a stupid reason. What’s the
big deal? Just say ‘it didn’t work out’ and move
on”.
Then we start giving free advice – “Don’t get so
attached,” “You shouldn’t take it so seriously,”
“The male species can’t be trusted,” and
bla…bla…right?
“Have you also given the same advice to your
friends?”
If We Ever Breakup :
But when the same breakup story happens
to us, we act even weirder than that friend.
We fall into even deeper depression and turn
into a bigger female Devdas.
And then the same friend – the one we once
lectured after their Heartbreak – starts giving us
advice.
The very things that once made the other
person look stupid to us…we don’t even
realize when we start doing all of them ourselves.
And then comes the stage where we stop
crying and start figuring out how to forget
this heartbreak hangover and its pain.
The relationship has completely ended, but
our story moves forward with just one
question – how do we get out of it now?
Life after Separation: Learning to move on
You don’t miss the person – you miss the
habit.
And then come those kamine friends who
start giving advice like they’re professors of
this subject.
Talk to random people, you’ll feel better –
that’s what they call a rebound, so you should
try it.
Anyone who’s had a breakup has heard
this advice at least once in their life.
You know, out of all the heartbreaks and
separations I’ve noticed around me, the
strangest thing – or ‘solution’ – I’ve seen is
this.
Point to be noted, milord.
Searching things like…..
How to get over a breakup,
what are the rules, what are the stages,
what is the 3 3 3 rule of breakup
and so on….
Bro, pain after a breakup is real – but you
don’t find a way out of it by searching for
solutions, my friend.
Heartbreak has only one real cure: time.
This is the only illness that heals with time.
At least everyone I asked told me the same
solution.
Yes, if you’re looking for a temporary solution
then according to the majority vote….
Temporary Ways to Move On After a
Breakup
- Going on a trip with friends
- Taking a solo trip
- Trying new things and exploring
But yaar, all this sounds possible only for
girls who are financially well-off and come
from modern families, right?
For conservative or strict families –
especially middle-class once – a trip with
friends is basically a dream…the kind of
dream that never comes true, bro.
So, my sisters, have patience – slowly,
everything does fall into place.
I think the people who say that time heals
everything are actually right.
By the way, you must have heard that famous
line – never cry over spilt milk.
Just follow that, babes.