Marriage – the chapter that arrives in every woman’s life,
sometimes by choice, sometimes by fate.
Whether it’s arranged or for love it’s the one experience that
somehow finds it’s way into every woman’s story.
And maybe the situations, challenges and bonds that come
with it are almost the same for every woman.
So let’s talk today about that marriage plot….
the one that turns a Miss into Mrs, and we girls keep trying
to understand what really happens in between.
The Marriage Manual Nobody gave you
Don’t you ever feel like – if only someone had been there
early on to guide you, to help you handle things the right way
maybe those early mistakes wouldn’t have happened at all?
Understanding a man – and then understanding his family
now that’s a though job, girl.
It’s not about love; it’s about patience, balance and learning
when to speak and when to simply breathe.
This marriage doesn’t last just because there is love – it lasts
with patience, balance, and a little bit of learning to overlook things.
And in all of this, the biggest role is played by that woman who
has just turned frome Miss to Mrs.
Because it’s always the woman who leaves her home after marriage
she’s the one who learns to adjust in a new family, in a new
world. That’s why, most of the time, it’s we women who end up
making the biggest sacrifices.
Sometimes, we even have to do things we may not like.
And this marriage manual is different for every woman – we have
to fill it out with a lot of understanding and patience.
But yes, one thing should be the same in everyone’s manual –
you shouldn’t have to make so many sacrifices that you forget who
you are.
In this journey frome Miss to Mrs, always hold on to your own identity.
Do everything but never forget your own name in this process.
Always remember, you were you before you were anyone’s wife,
daughter-in-law, or sister.
Because if you can’t hold on to who you are – your own identity,
your own fire – Then you’ll forgetting the girl you used to be before
marriage.